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Teenager ‘mentally ill’ after forced marriage and beatings by local goon

The victim cannot even speak properly and bears marks of serious injuries on her head and different parts of body.

A 16-year-old girl has fallen mentally ill after being tortured by a local goon for refusing to settle down with him following a forced marriage. Masuma Akter cannot even speak properly and bears marks of serious injuries on her head and different parts of body. Currently she is going under treatment at the Dhaka Medical College Hospital (DMCH), where her two legs remain tied to the bed as she often loses control of her body. Masuma was a candidate for the HSC (Higher Secondary Certificate) exam from Loahir Madrasa of Muksudpur upazila of Gopalganj district. On June 24, Sajib Matubbor, 25, abducted her as she was walking to the madrasa from her home and he later forced her into marriage through intimidation, alleged Masuma’s family members. After a week, Sajib’s father made them get a divorce and sent Masuma back to her home, calling her a “bad girl,” they said.

One month later, Sajib went to Masuma’s house and told her to come back to him. When she refused, he beat her up badly. Learning of the incident, Masuma’s family sent her away from Gopalganj to stay with her uncle in Madaripur. Sajib found her there alone and after she again refused to accompany him, he hit her with bricks on the head, leaving her seriously injured.

Alerted by her cries for help, locals detained Sajib and handed him over to Madaripur police. Later, on September 1, Masuma’s father filed a case of “attempt to murder” with Madaripur Sadar police station and admitted Masuma to Faridpur sadar hospital. As her condition deteriorated, the doctors of Faridpur Hospital suggested her transfer to DMCH, where she was admitted on September 7 and remains under medication. While asked about the progress of the case, Sanjay Kumar, sub-inspector of Madaripur Sadar police station, told the Dhaka Tribune that Sajib was sent to jail and they would submit the charge sheet of the case shortly after completing some relevant investigation. Akmal Uddin, the father of the victim, however, claimed they were passing the days in fear as they suspected Sajib might come out of jail anytime.

Read More: http://www.dhakatribune.com/crime/2013/sep/19/teenager-%E2%80%98mentally-ill%E2%80%99-after-forced-marriage-and-beatings-local-goon

Child marriage campaigners in south Asia receive $23m cash injection

By the age of 17, Zeenat had been divorced three times after forced marriages. She first wed shortly after puberty to a man who abused her, an experience that recurred in her subsequent marriages.

She became so isolated that she did not go to the hospital or ask for help. Neither had she heard of India’s Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act of 2005, which made her husband’s violent outbursts not just wrong, but illegal. Sadly, her story is all too common. Every year about 10 million girls become child brides, and one in seven girls in the developing world marries before the age of 15. BangladeshNepal and India have three of the highest rates of child marriage, with 68.7%, 56.1% and 50% respectively of girls married before the age of 18. Child marriage is not just a question of poverty – although that is a critical issue – but also of how girls are viewed in society.

“Even with higher levels of income, there is the practice of child marriage,” said Care International’s gender director, Theresa Hwang. “It is an issue of status; girls are valued in a lesser way. In India, girls are not seen as ‘added value’. The issue is squarely tied to gender equality and social norms.” Care USA, the US arm of the anti-poverty NGO, and the American Jewish World Service (AJWS) this week received grants of $7.7m (£4.9m) and $15.3m respectively from the Kendeda fund to tackle child marriage in south Asia. Both organisations will use the money to support local NGOs.

Founded 10 years ago, the Kendeda fund worked initially on environmental sustainability in the US, but last year created a girls’ rights portfolio. AJWS will focus on India, Care on Nepal and Bangladesh.

Read More: http://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2013/aug/23/child-marriage-india-bangladesh-nepal

Girl says mother forced her to marry HIV+ man, helped him rape her

MumbaiIn a shocking case of abuse, a 16-year-old student from a Thane college was forcibly married off to an HIV+ patient by her mother based in Kalwa, Mumbai, police said. Cops said the mother would bind her hands and stuff a piece of cloth into her mouth to allow the husband to rape her. If she resisted, she would be battered by the duo, they added.

“On many occasions I was beaten with bamboo sticks. When I still refused to give up, my mother forced me to have cold drinks laced with sedatives so that he could rape me,” the girl said in her statement to Childline NGO. According to the police, the matter came to light when the victim approached the Child Welfare Committee (CWC) through a former teacher. Based on her statement to the CWC committee, the panel asked the Kalwa police to register an FIR. As per the victim’s statement to the police and the panel, the accused who is in his early 30s, is a distant kin of the family and had been staying in their neighbourhood for several years. The girl alleged that he would support the family financially and had been paying for her education.


Dragged back home

On May 23, the accused allegedly put forth a marriage proposal and the victim’s indebted mother could not resist.The girl said, despite her protests, she was forced to marry the accused. Her age was allegedly manipulated and the ceremony took place at a temple in south Mumbai, she added. “After hearing talk of my marriage, I tried to escape from the house. But my mother chased me till the station and forced me to get off the train. She consumed phenyl to blackmail me into staying. I was left with no option but to marry this guy, knowing full well that he was HIV-positive,” the victim stated.

The girl said she was forced into a physical relationship with the accused after marriage. She added that if she refused, her mother would pin her down and muzzle her while the accused forced himself on her. She was allegedly beaten black and blue by them. At times, he’d lock her up in the room.

Read More: http://www.ndtv.com/article/cities/girl-says-mother-forced-her-to-marry-hiv-man-helped-him-rape-her-409318

Forced marriages impede education in Karaga – ISODEC

The Integrated Social Development Centre (ISODEC), a human rights and a social development non-governmental organization has expressed grave concern about the alarming rate of forced marriages in the Karaga District, a situation which impedes the education of the girl-child. Madam Agnes Gandaa, Northern Ghana Programmes Coordinator of ISODEC, who expressed the concern, said a survey conducted by her outfit revealed that many communities in the district still practiced forced marriages, betrothal and other outmoded forms of marriages, which undermined many females in the area from progressing in education. She said the culprits, who were currently facing difficulties in their operations, have adopted a practice of refusing to send their female children to school to avoid the situation where teachers would attempt to prevent them from giving out their girls for marriage. Madam Gandaa expressed the concern in Karaga, on Wednesday, during a day’s forum on forced marriages and enrolment of girls in school, as part of an implementation project of the Alliance for Change in Education (ACE).

The forum forms part of activities by the ACE and ISODEC to address the challenges of education in the Karaga and Gushiegu districts. She said forced marriages were not only a form of domestic violence but also deprived females from advancing from the shackles of poverty and called on stakeholders in education, development partners, government and parents to help address the issue. Mr Eten Simon, Focal Person of ACE Project in ISODEC, who presented the research findings, indicated that out of the 20 communities that the research was conducted, 95 per cent of the respondents admitted giving out their daughters for marriage in all forms, including exchange, pregnancy-induced marriages and betrothal marriages.

See more at: http://www.ghanabusinessnews.com/2013/09/05/forced-marriages-impede-education-in-karaga-isodec/

Spoon in underwear saving youths from forced marriage

LONDON, England — As Britain puts airport staff on alert to spot potential victims of forced marriage, one campaigning group says the trick of putting a spoon in their underwear has saved some youngsters from a forced union in their South Asian ancestral homelands. The concealed spoon sets off the metal detector at the airport in Britain and the teenagers can be taken away from their parents to be searched — a last chance to escape a largely hidden practice wrecking the lives of unknown thousands of British youths.

The British school summer holidays, now well under way, mark a peak in reports of young people — typically girls aged 15 and 16 — being taken abroad on “holiday”, for a marriage without consent, the government says. The bleep at airport security may be the last chance they get to escape a marriage to someone they have never met in a country they have never seen. The spoon trick is the brainchild of the Karma Nirvana charity, which supports victims and survivors of forced marriage and honour-based abuse. Based in Derby, central England, it fields 6,500 calls per year from around Britain but has almost reached that point so far in 2013 as awareness of the issue grows. When petrified youngsters ring, “if they don’t know exactly when it may happen or if it’s going to happen, we advise them to put a spoon in their underwear,” said Natasha Rattu, Karma Nirvana’s operations manager.

 

Read more: http://www.google.com/hostednews/afp/article/ALeqM5jN5f87rQ3cCunR2zTsRDwd65cBFA?docId=CNG.c11be101825133d07578413f46b2d669.411

After arranged marriage, Indianapolis woman was raped repeatedly while kept at Southside apartment

The woman from India came to Indiana to visit family. Shortly after arriving, she discovered her mother had arranged a marriage for her, a not-uncommon practice in their culture.

But this marriage would turn into a violent and degrading four-month ordeal. She was raped by her husband and forced to do nearly round-the-clock household labor, police say. She was routinely referred to as “bitch” by her husband, uncle and aunt. She was slapped and choked. Her life was threatened. She barely ate and had to sleep on the floor without covers. But this week, the woman will get some measure of relief when her husband, Lakhvir Singh, 28, is sentenced in Marion Superior Court. “I want the maximum punishment and justice to be served,” the woman said in a statement to The Indianapolis Star. The Star does not generally identify victims of sexual abuse or assault. “I don’t want this to happen to any other girl. My voice can finally be heard.” A week ago, a jury found Singh guilty of criminal deviate conduct, domestic battery, rape, sexual battery and strangulation.

Singh was found not guilty of another charge: promotion of human trafficking. He also was acquitted on separate counts of rape, deviate sexual conduct and sexual battery. His sentencing is scheduled for Friday, and he faces six to 20 years in prison for the most serious charges. Singh’s lawyer, Jack Crawford, says the woman made up the allegations to get out of a marriage she didn’t like and to secure a visa for victims of human trafficking. “She was in a marriage where she did some things she didn’t want to do and tried to get out of it,” Crawford said. “The blame here lies with the parents for forcing them both into a marriage they did not want.” But the victim’s brother says she has the emotional and physical scars to prove the allegations. “She is finally getting her confidence back, but it will take a long time,” said her brother, who called police when he found out about the abuse. The Star is not naming the brother to help further protect her identity.

“She had to repeat the experience at the trial, so it will be some time before she is normal.”

Visiting from India

The brother was a graduate student at Purdue University when the woman came with their mother from India to visit him in May 2010. But shortly after arriving, her mother told her she had arranged a marriage with Singh, who then lived in New Castle, said Indianapolis Metropolitan Police Department Detective Jon Daggy. “That is something in the culture you don’t go against the mother’s wishes about,” Daggy said. The couple later moved to an apartment on Indianapolis’ Southside. No certificate of marriage was ever filed with the state of Indiana, according to a probable cause document filed with Marion Superior Court. A religious ceremony, however, occurred at a Sikh temple in Indianapolis. Cheryl Thomas, director of the women’s rights program at Advocates for Human Rights, a national nonprofit based in Minneapolis, said arranged marriages can be dangerous. “This is a problem in many countries where women are forced into marriages that they don’t want to be in,” she said. “They’re vulnerable, particularly if they don’t have any education or access to employment that can give them some independence.”

Read more: http://www.indystar.com/article/20130812/NEWS02/308120012/After-arranged-marriage-Indianapolis-woman-raped-repeatedly-while-kept-Southside-apartment?nclick_check=1

Pupils at risk of forced marriage warned about danger of being abducted by their own families

  • Four children a day are spirited out of Britain over summer holidays
  • Cards offering help to those at risk will be handed out to schools and GPs

Teachers have been put on alert for pupils who could be taken out of the country and forced to marry strangers. It is thought up to four children a day are spirited out of Britain over the summer holidays to be wed against their wishes. New cards offering help to those at risk of being forced to marry will be handed out to schools, airports and GPs’ surgeries. Aneeta Prem, founder of Freedom Charity, which helps victims of forced marriage, said: ‘The “Marriage: it’s your choice” card is a concise and accessible way to receive information that could save someone’s life.

‘It’s vital that young people travelling abroad for a family wedding realise it could be their own wedding – and know who they should contact should they find themselves in danger.’  Between June and August last year the government’s Forced Marriage Unit had more than 400 reported cases, compared with 1,485 cases for the whole year.
Crime prevention minister Jeremy Browne said: ‘The rise in forced marriage reports over the school holidays is shocking.
‘Teenagers expecting their GCSE or A-level results should be embarking on a bright future, not condemned to a marriage with someone they have never met and do not want to marry. ‘This is a serious abuse of human rights and that is why we are legislating to make it illegal.’

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2388445/Pupils-risk-forced-marriage-warned-danger-abducted-families.html#ixzz2blFBF0S7

Forced marriage unit deals with 114 cases involving mental disability

Campaigners say case of Sikh man ‘married off’ to Indian woman despite not having capacity to consent highlights ‘horrendous’ issue

The government dealt with 114 cases of forced marriage last year that involved mentally disabled people – a number government experts admit is only the tip of the iceberg of a horrendous hidden problem. The Foreign Office, which runs the government’s forced marriage unit with the Ministry of Justice, released the figure after a high court judge was criticised by campaigners for refusing to annul the marriage of a mentally incapacitated Sikh man from the West Midlands whose parents had imported a wife from India for him. Mr Justice Holman ruled that the 38-year-old Briton, named only as RG, was unable to consent to marriage because of his learning difficulties. He requires full-time residential care provided by Sandwell borough council. But the judge decided not to recommend a petition of nullity be issued on RG’s behalf after deciding that RG “gained pleasure” from his Indian-born wife, SK, who told the court she did not know about her husband’s significant disabilities until their wedding day.

The judgment drew strong criticism from campaigners against forced marriage, who claim parents in certain communities in Britain often marry off their disabled children in the hope that their (often unwitting) spouses will act as carers. “The ruling has sent the wrong message,” said Jasvinder Sanghera from the charity Karma Nirvana, which runs a helpline for victims. “One of the definitions of forced marriage is a marriage in which one or both spouses do not or cannot consent and in this case the judge clearly ruled that RG was not capable of consenting to his marriage.” Commending Sandwell council for raising the alarm, Tom Watson, the Labour MP for West Bromwich East, described forced marriage as “wrong, wrong, wrong”.

 

Read more: http://www.theguardian.com/world/2013/aug/09/mentally-disabled-forced-marriages-parents

 

Teen girl wins freedom from forced wedding

Ireland: NEW laws may be necessary to protect very young people from being subjected to ‘forced’ marriages, a judge has warned.

His comment came after the High Court annulled the union between a 16-year-old Egyptian girl and a 29-year-old man whom she married against her wishes.

The marriage between the couple, who are both of the Islamic faith, was declared null and void, in a ruling which was delivered by Mr Justice John MacMenamin.

“While Irish society is becoming increasingly diverse and the Constitution attaches great significance to equality, children’s rights and the institution of marriage, there are no laws addressing marriages involving ‘no real consent’,” Mr Justice John MacMenamin said. An Irish charity warned that more cases of forced marriage have been identified in women living in Ireland. Plan Ireland said: “With changing patterns of migration into Ireland in recent years, it is not hugely surprising that cases of forced and child marriage among people living here have been identified.”

Read more: http://www.herald.ie/news/courts/teen-girl-wins-freedom-from-forced-wedding-29357969.html

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