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FGM special report: “I still can’t look at a razorblade”

Aissa Edon, 32, was pinned down and mutilated when she was just  six-years-old. “I remember everything about it,” she says, “the place, the  smell, being held down. I remember screaming – it sounded like someone else, but  it was me – and I remember blood and intense pain. Pain I can’t even  describe.”

Now a midwife in London specialising in FGM, she is happy to speak  openly to Cosmo about her experiences. “I was living in Mali when  my stepmother took me to undergo female genital mutilation (FGM). I was being  adopted by a family in France and it happened before I went away – a kind of  terrible going-away present. My one-year-old sister had it done then, too.

“When I arrived in France, my adopted parents knew straight away –  a section of my medical records was sealed, marked ‘do not open’, and the FGM  was included there. I was very lucky to be in France because I had a lot of  complications – pain for months afterward, urinary tract infections, and  psychological problems. To this day, I can’t look at a razor blade, and for  years I carried the guilt of what happened to my sister, wondering whether she’d  have escaped FGM if I hadn’t been leaving.

“I had surgery in 2004 to correct my urinary problems, and  reconstructive surgery to my clitoris in 2005. The first time I knew it was  working, I was walking down the street and I felt something strange happening  down below! I still have some psychological issues, and intimacy is difficult at  times – my body is working just fine, but my head shuts down.”

Read more: http://www.cosmopolitan.co.uk/lifestyle/big-issue/cosmo-reports/special-fgm-report-cant-look-at-razorblade#ixzz34KMeIonK

Kingston headteachers criticised for ignoring FGM email

A campaigner against female genital mutilation (FGM) has criticised Kingston headteachers for failing to read Government advice on combating the practice.

The Department for Education has sent guidance to schools helping to identify girls at risk of the illegal practice, which can include being taken abroad to be cut.   But a Freedom of Information request by the Evening Standard showed 23 of the 53 Kingston heads who received the email did not read the online guidance – and 20 did not even open the message.

Kingston resident Sarbjit Athwal, who campaigns against honour-based violence and forced marriage as well as FGM, said: “I think that’s appalling. Every teacher should be reading the email. “There is no reason for them not to go ahead with it. “The summer holidays are coming. “It is when people tend to think, ‘It’s not our business’, that it gets really bad. Somewhere down the line we could save someone’s life.”

Siobhan Lowe, headteacher at Tolworth Girls’ School, said she was surprised at the figures, but said head teachers at a recent Achieving for Children conference had shown awareness of the issue.

Read More: http://www.surreycomet.co.uk/news/11262448.Kingston_headteachers_criticised_for_ignoring_FGM_email/

 

SMS saves teen from forced marriage

Chennai: An SMS sent to the city police control room (9500099100) changed the life of a teenage girl who was forced into marriage by her parents in Arumbakkam. Banu (name changed) (17), a plus-two student, chose to send an SMS to the control as a last resort to save herself from the unwanted marriage arranged at Tiruverkadu on Sunday. Banu, determined to continue her higher studies, was unable to fight her parents and sent her sad tale through the SMS. The city police took up her SMS as a complaint and rescued her from her house and called off the wedding.

The police took her to the ICCW (Indian Council for Child Welfare), a voluntary childcare home in the city. Ms Silvia of ICCW told DC that the parents were angry and upset that the wedding was cancelled. “We appreciated Banu for taking the right decision on time. When we told the parents that since Banu is a minor and her marriage would be invalid and also illegal, they said they were not aware of the legal procedures. They were disappointed, as they had invited their relatives for the wedding. We told them that they would be penalised for the child marriage,” said Ms Silvia.

Read More: http://www.deccanchronicle.com/140607/nation-crime/article/sms-saves-teen-forced-marriage

Forced Marriage still a British Asian issue

The legal age for marriage differs from country to country. In the UK, this age is 18. With parental and participant consent combined, this can go as low as 16.

Yet the number of cases that see marriages take place without participant consent is alarmingly high; and among South Asian communities in Britain, forced marriages (FM) are particularly common. The global statistics for underage or child marriages are overwhelming. 100 million girls under 18 will be married off within the next decade. There are currently 51 million girls between the age of 15 and 19 that are married worldwide.

In the UK, the Forced Marriage Unit (FMU; part of the Home Office) dealt with 1,302 cases related to FM between January and December 2013. Women are at higher risk of being forced into marriage at 82 per cent, however there is a significant number (18 per cent) which also see men being victims, and interestingly, forced marriages are not limited to the young either.

Read More: http://www.desiblitz.com/content/forced-marriage-still-british-asian-issue

Criminalisation of Forced Marriage Conference 2014

The Halo Project is pleased to host the Criminalisation of Forced Marriage in the North East of England. We will hear from experts in the field who can help us understand what the implications of the new law mean and also how we need to change the way we respond to forced marriages. Speakers include, Chaz Akoshile, Joint Head of the Forced Marriage Unit and Nazir Afzal, Chief Crown Prosecutor, CPS North West along with others to be confirmed.

Event details
Date: Thursday 24th July 2014
Venue: Thistle Hotel, Fry Street, Middlesbrough
Time: 9.30-4.00 pm (Lunch provided)

We will keep you updated as speakers are confirmed, please visit info@haloproject.org.uk to register your interest.

Female genital mutilation poster campaign targets mothers and carers

A poster campaign aimed at mothers and carers who suspect a girl is at risk of female genital mutilation is being rolled out across major cities in England and Wales.

The posters urge women, particularly those in Somali, Kenyan and Nigerian communities which have a higher prevalence of FGM, to call an NSPCC-dedicated helpline if they are suspicious. The posters will be placed in washrooms, and also sent to schools, GPs’ surgeries, police stations and hospitals to be displayed in staff areas.

More than 20,000 girls under the age of 15 could be at high risk of FGM in England and Wales each year, with nearly 66,000 women having experienced the procedure.

Announcing the poster campaign, the home secretary, Theresa May, said: “FGM is illegal and it is child abuse. The government is absolutely committed to tackling and preventing this harmful practice in order to safeguard and protect all girl and women who may be at a risk. It often results in severe consequences for their physical and mental health and we must do everything we can to eradicate it for good.

Read More: http://www.theguardian.com/society/2014/jun/02/female-genital-mutilation-fgm-poster-campaign-mothers

Confused by honour killings? Find out what it’s all about

Unless you’ve been exposed to it, honour-based violence can be quite a complicated issue to understand. Maybe you’ve read about the victims in the newspapers or seen something about it on TV, so you know a bit about what’s involved. But by its nature, honour-based violence is something that happens behind closed doors and isn’t openly spoken about. Here’s Cosmos guide to the facts – what it is, why it’s happening, and why something needs to be done to stop it.

So what exactly is honourbased violence?

Honour-based violence (HBV) is the name given to horrific acts of violence on women carried out by their own families in the name of protecting the family’s ‘honour’. For doing things most of us take for granted – like having a boyfriend your family doesn’t necessarily approve of, asking for a divorce or dressing in a Western style – some women are murdered, beaten, and subjected to acid attacks, all at the hands of their parents, siblings, and husbands. 

That’s awful – why would their families do this?

It’s all to do with the idea of honour. Honour is connected to the women in a family – they’re told that it is their job to protect it. The only way a woman can protect it, though, is to do exactly what others expect of her, which means dressing in a certain way, only hanging out with the ‘right’ people and marrying the ‘right’ man – regardless of what the woman herself wants. If she veers at all from this strict path, she is said to have dishonoured her family and it is ‘honourable’ for them to kill her. In these families, death is often considered preferable to divorce.

While honour can bind families together, it can also be used as a tool to oppress women and keep them in line. Mothers are just as likely to perpetrate honour-based crimes if they have been brought up in this culture. Often, the people who carry out these terrible crimes show no remorse – this is because they genuinely believe what they have done is good and right.

Read more: http://www.cosmopolitan.co.uk/lifestyle/big-issue/cosmo-reports/honour-killings-the-facts#ixzz31Wq6jHNP

Don’t Separate ‘Honour Crimes’ From Other Violence Against Women

Most would agree that with a women murdered every six days in Canada, we need to address gendered violence in all its forms. This cannot be done, tempting and reassuring as it might be, by simplistically attributing the problem to one religious group to the exclusion of others.

In the Clarion Project’s latest documentary titled Honour Diaries, now making its way around North America, the producers seem bent on doing just that. The documentary claims to expose the paralyzing political correctness that prevents us from addressing the human rights disaster that is honour-based violence. There is no doubt that violence against women motivated by the preservation of family honour continues to be a problem in many parts of the world, including here in Canada. Labeling it as an exclusively Muslim problem, however, is not only inaccurate but also threatens to overlook the systemic problems at the root of all gendered violence. Doing so further risks promoting bigotry that will alienate those best placed to address the problem.

In fact, organizations like the Canadian Council of Muslim Women refuse to even use the term “honour killing” preferring the term “femicide” instead. It is after all murder in all cases. In their view, the term honour needlessly separates women and girls into groups based on race, culture and religion. The term has ballooned to include a large swathe of activities — everything from murder of women with foreign sounding names, forced marriage, female genital mutilation/cutting, to selective abortion. It is hard to find anything in common except that these activities are somehow associated with people from “non-Western” traditions.

Essentially, honour crimes describe crimes that are not all that different from other violence against women. They are crimes with power and control at their core. They are a violent denial of the right of women to choose for themselves how to live their lives.

 

Read More: http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/amy-awad/honour-crimes_b_5127426.html

Female Genital Mutilation: Teachers told to ‘check holiday plans’ of children at risk of FGM

Teachers and schools should check on the holiday arrangements of pupils from communities which practice female genital mutilation (FGM), a conference was told.

Delegates at the Association of Teachers and Lecturers’ annual conference became the first teachers to discuss the issue at a national conference yesterday when they called on the Home Office to draw up a national strategy for eradicating the practice in the UK.

Helen Porter, from Berkshire, moving the motion, told the conference it was estimated 66,000 women resident in England and Wales had undergone the process and over 23,000 girls under the age of 15 were at risk or had already undergone FGM.

“As education staff, we need to raise awareness and encourage young women and women to question FGM,“  said Ms Porter. ”We need to help reposition FGM in terms of violence against women and girls not cultural practice.

 

Read More: http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/female-genital-mutilation-teachers-told-to-check-holiday-plans-of-children-at-risk-of-fgm-9264624.html

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