{"id":214,"date":"2013-08-13T22:30:54","date_gmt":"2013-08-13T22:30:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.haloproject.org.uk\/blog\/?p=214"},"modified":"2021-12-01T14:10:50","modified_gmt":"2021-12-01T14:10:50","slug":"human-rights-student-reporter-of-the-year-on-life-after-forced-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.haloproject.org.uk\/blog\/human-rights-student-reporter-of-the-year-on-life-after-forced-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Human rights student reporter of the year on life after forced marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>The winning entry in Amnesty International UK&#8217;s annual competition, in conjunction with the Observer and the NUS, is by Lauren Wilks of the University of Edinburgh<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Parents, family, friends \u2013\u00a0I left everyone because he was after me and my daughter,&#8221; says Tehmina, explaining how she came to leave\u00a0<a title=\"More from guardian.co.uk on Pakistan\" href=\"http:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/world\/pakistan\">Pakistan<\/a>in 2002 and claim asylum in the UK. &#8220;It was an arranged marriage, but when I married him he turned out to be another person. I was beaten and abused for 10\u00a0months.&#8221;\u00a0After escaping, Tehmina was rejected by almost everyone in her family. While her father was sympathetic, he told her that she and her daughter no longer had a life in Pakistan. She received death threats from her brothers and the police ignored her cry for help, saying it was &#8220;her own matter&#8221;. &#8220;The situation in Pakistan is very difficult,&#8221; she says. &#8220;It&#8217;s impossible to live as a single woman or single mother \u2026 honour killings are everywhere.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Within the UK, confronting the issue of\u00a0<a title=\"More from guardian.co.uk on Forced marriage\" href=\"http:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/world\/forced-marriage\">forced marriage<\/a>\u00a0is not new. Campaigners have long called for greater attention to the issue; and in recent years policymakers have pushed aside claims of cultural difference and introduced a range of measures \u2013 aimed at both the UK and overseas \u2013 to work towards ending the practice. However, tougher laws and awareness campaigns, while important, fail to address the needs of those living in, or trying to escape from, a forced marriage. For women such as Tehmina, running away is not an end to the trauma. &#8220;It&#8217;s an uphill struggle; very often as bad as the forced marriage itself,&#8221; says Angela Voulgari of\u00a0<a title=\"Saheliya\" href=\"http:\/\/www.saheliya.co.uk\/\">Saheliya<\/a>, an Edinburgh-based organisation that supports black and minority ethnic women. Voulgari wants to see more intensive support to protect those trapped in and escaping from forced marriages. She says that fleeing a marriage can mark the beginning of another, more frightening chapter.<\/p>\n<p>Read more:\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/world\/2013\/aug\/11\/human-rights-student-reporter-award\">http:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/world\/2013\/aug\/11\/human-rights-student-reporter-award<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The winning entry in Amnesty International UK&#8217;s annual competition, in conjunction with the Observer and the NUS, is by Lauren Wilks of the University of Edinburgh Parents, family, friends \u2013\u00a0I left everyone because he was after me and my daughter,&#8221; says Tehmina, explaining how she came to leave\u00a0Pakistanin 2002 and claim asylum in the UK. 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