\u201cI was taken on the pretext that I was going for a fun outing,\u201d says Masooma Ranvali. \u201cLittle did I know that it would turn out to be one of the most horrible moments of my life. It was done very surreptitiously.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ranvali, who was seven years old at the time, says her grandmother took her to a dark, dingy building in India<\/a> where she was immediately ordered to lie down on the floor by an elderly lady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI remember it very clearly,\u201d she tells The Independent<\/em>. \u201cI was like, \u2018Why should I lie down?\u2019 But my grandmother pulled me down. She opened my legs and pulled down my panties. I was sobbing. It was brutal. The woman then took a blade or a knife to cut a part of me. It was painful. I know I came home and cried with my mother. I was small and innocent. I was in pain for about a week after.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n The 52-year-old, who is a survivor of female gender mutilation<\/a> (FGM), says she blocked the memory out for many years due to being expressly forbidden from talking about the issue and there being a \u201cshroud of silence\u201d around it in her community. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Her warnings come as Equality Now, a non-government organisation which promotes the rights of women and girls, found official data on the global prevalence of FGM released by Un<\/a>icef<\/a>, which claims it affects at least 200 million women, \u201cwoefully\u201d underestimates both the nature and scale of the issue. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The report, shared with The Independent <\/em>ahead of its release date, found there is growing evidence that FGM takes place across the world, in numerous countries in Europe, the Middle East, Africa, Asia, North America and Latin America.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Divya Srinivasan, who wrote the report, says: \u201cWe are missing out on counting large groups of women and children who have undergone FGM. For example, after Indonesia conducted a national survey to estimate FGM prevalence for the first time, Unicef\u2019s global estimates jumped from 125 million to 200 million.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Srinivasan, an Indian lawyer who specialises in women\u2019s rights<\/a> and works for the south Asia branch of Equality Now, argued a dearth of accurate data can lead to governments being reluctant to tackle FGM and ignoring the issue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n FGM, internationally recognised as a human rights violation, refers to any procedure that intentionally alters female genital organs for non-medical reasons. The procedure, which can cause a lifetime of severe health problems and pain, is often carried out without anaesthesia<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cIt is a very painful, bitter, and scary memory,\u201d Ranvali adds. \u201cI did not speak to anyone. That includes my mother and sisters. As a child, it was very isolating. As a child, it was an inexplicable and horrible phenomenon. It has to do with the genitals which is something nobody talks about. It is that part of your body which is hush hush. It is a shameful area. It makes you feel like your genital area is dirty and like there is something wrong with you which had to be cut and removed.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cIn my thirties, I read about the practice in Africa,\u201d she adds. \u201cIt rang a bell in me. I thought, \u2018Isn\u2019t this what we also do? Isn\u2019t this what happened to me?\u2019 That was a horrible and painful moment. In my forties, I decided to break my silence. I had a young daughter who was not cut but I had the realisation that not everyone is as lucky as her. My daughter\u2019s generation is also being cut.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ranvali, who says \u201c100 per cent\u201d of her generation has been cut, argues FGM is carried out to control women\u2019s sexual urges to ensure they do not have premarital sex or extramarital affairs due to the procedure making sex more painful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cThe clitoris is the part of female anatomy where sexual pleasure is,\u201d she adds. \u201cTo control your daughter you have to do it. There is this unsaid fear. It is fear sold to parents of girls that you have to be careful and if you do not do this then you will have trouble in your hands. It is part of patriarchal notions.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cIt was unusual for my father to come,\u201d the 42-year-old explains. \u201cI was seven. I have had a year of counselling and I still have not got this memory back.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n She adds: \u201cMy need to talk about it is to prevent another girl from going through what I went through. If you belong to the Bohra community FGM is a requirement. The dichotomy is the community is very open, liberal, educated and well-integrated.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dr Perry, who now works as a teacher, says as she got older she started to question what normal sex would be like and started to feel a profound sense of loss. Her mother would cry when she brought it up with her as she got older, she adds.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u201cI was taken on the pretext that I was going for a fun outing,\u201d says Masooma Ranvali. \u201cLittle did I know that it would turn out to be one of the most horrible moments of my life. 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Dr Perry, who says the procedure was carried out in a medical setting despite the practice being illegal, did not become aware of the fact she had been cut until she turned 16 or 17 and asked her mother about what had happened to her.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n