{"id":1088,"date":"2016-03-12T11:00:48","date_gmt":"2016-03-12T11:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.haloproject.org.uk\/blog\/?p=1088"},"modified":"2016-03-11T14:59:08","modified_gmt":"2016-03-11T14:59:08","slug":"uk-is-failing-girls-who-flee-forced-marriage-says-honour-abuse-survivor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.haloproject.org.uk\/blog\/uk-is-failing-girls-who-flee-forced-marriage-says-honour-abuse-survivor\/","title":{"rendered":"UK is failing girls who flee forced marriage, says honour abuse survivor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>At 12 years old, Shaheen Hashmat left her family home in Scotland to escape the threat of forced marriage to a stranger in Pakistan. At 13, she attempted suicide.<\/p>\n<p>Hashmat, who now campaigns against forced marriage and &#8220;honour based&#8221; violence, says Britain urgently needs better mental health services for girls and women escaping these situations.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There needs to be far more training about the increased risk of suicide and the impact of family estrangement,&#8221; said Hashmat, who won the True Honour 2016 award on Thursday for her bravery in standing up to honour abuse.<\/p>\n<p>Experts say thousands of girls and women in Britain are subjected to \u00a0every year as a way of controlling behaviour perceived as bringing shame on their family.\u00a0Hashmat, now 33, grew up in a strict Pakistani family in which every aspect of her life was policed from the TV she watched to the people she spoke to and even the way she sat.<\/p>\n<p>She was beaten and saw others in her family beaten too. Her two older sisters were forced into marriage as teenagers after being sent &#8220;on holiday&#8221; to Pakistan.\u00a0As she grew up she started to challenge what was happening around her. &#8220;If I had stayed the physical abuse would have increased because I was seen as being out of control and becoming too westernised,&#8221; she told Thomson Reuters Foundation.<br \/>\nRead more: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/wires\/reuters\/article-3487516\/UK-failing-girls-flee-forced-marriage-says-honour-abuse-survivor.html#ixzz42bffpQyO\">http:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/wires\/reuters\/article-3487516\/UK-failing-girls-flee-forced-marriage-says-honour-abuse-survivor.html#ixzz42bffpQyO<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At 12 years old, Shaheen Hashmat left her family home in Scotland to escape the threat of forced marriage to a stranger in Pakistan. At 13, she attempted suicide. Hashmat, who now campaigns against forced marriage and &#8220;honour based&#8221; violence, says Britain urgently needs better mental health services for girls and women escaping these situations. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[395,4,297,10,396],"class_list":["post-1088","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-britain","tag-halo-project","tag-honour-abuse","tag-honour-based-violence","tag-mental-health-services"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.haloproject.org.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1088","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.haloproject.org.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.haloproject.org.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.haloproject.org.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.haloproject.org.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1088"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.haloproject.org.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1088\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1089,"href":"https:\/\/www.haloproject.org.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1088\/revisions\/1089"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.haloproject.org.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1088"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.haloproject.org.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1088"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.haloproject.org.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1088"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}